Presidency Message by Karen Schmidt
Our words have a profound influence on the Spirit
in our homes and the tone of our interactions with
others. It can be so easy to be impatient, thoughtless,
or unkind when we speak to others, about others, or
even about ourselves, but we are commanded to
learn to bridle our tongues (see James 3:2-10).
One evening when I was pondering how to control
my words better, I remembered some phrases from a
General Conference talk given ten years ago by
Jeffery R. Holland. In his talk, “The Tongue of
Angels”, Elder Holland encourages each of us to
work on making our words more kind, faithful and
edifying instead of criticizing, embarrassing, or being
hurtful to others. He urges us to be so careful to
praise our children individually for what they are and
to never compare them. He says, “What we say or
don’t say, how we say it and when is so very, very
important in shaping that child’s faith in us and their
faith in God. Be constructive…always.” I think this
applies to more than just children; we should be
careful and constructive at all times towards all
people we have contact with.
Elder Holland also encourages us to be optimistic.
The Savior commanded us to “be of good cheer”
(John 16:33). When we speak, we should try to be
hopeful and happy about ourselves, others, and our
circumstances. Speaking optimistically will help
lighten our load and that of others. We invite the
Spirit into our homes as we make an effort to be
positive in our speech. I have noticed that as I have
made the effort to be more positive and patient in my
words to my family members, things go better and
the Spirit of love and unity abides in our home.
We can be a blessing and light to our communities
where negativity and anger are so common. When
we speak lovingly and have the Spirit guide what we
say, Elder Holland says “tears can be dried, hearts
can be healed, lives can be elevated, hope can
return, confidence can prevail.” I have seen so many
wonderful examples of loving and kind
communication in this ward and elsewhere. It is an
attribute worth working on; it will make our lives and
those around us happier if we will learn to talk “with
the tongue of angels” (2Ne 1:13).
June 2017
Birthdays
14 Melissa Bowler
15 Heather Allison
16 Sheree Cardon
17 Lisa Larson
17 Sandra Sullivan
24 Eva Carroll
Lesson Schedule – (Gordon B Hinkley)
June 4 Presidency message Karen Schmidt
June 11 #10 “Nurturing the Eternal
Partnership of Marriage”
June 18 #11 “Home – the Basis of a
Righteous Life”
June 25 “The Godhead and Plan of
Salvation” by Elder Oaks
Upcoming Events
June 8 Relief Society Meeting at 6:30
June 18 Father’s Day
June 21 Ward Temple Day
July 3-24 Temple closed
Other Opportunities
June 14 Book Group 7 pm at Jaynie’s book is
“The Paris Architect” by Charles Belfoure
June 20 Lunch Bunch at 11:30 at Chipotle
Saturdays 8 am basketball Stake Center
Mon & Wed 9 am Aerobics
Service Opportunity
Collect/Buy new items for Newborns in Need
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