Friday, November 7, 2014

Home: The Heart of Learning

When learning at church supports 
learning at home, you build a strong 
foundation of gospel living.

When we consider the time we spend at home verses the time we spend at church it would make sense that the majority of our learning should happen in the home. We need to be learning and practicing gospel teachings at home daily. Also, remembering to attend all of our Sunday meetings, knowing they are to supplement our home learning and strengthen us. 

Church meetings are really meant to support individual and family learning. As Presiding Bishop Gary E. Stevenson taught, “The primary place of teaching and learning is the home.” When learning and teaching are centered in the home, they carry power that can lead to conversion.

“None of us are minimizing the in-chapel, in-meetinghouse teaching,” says Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. “We’ve all done that all of our lives, but we’d like it to be 24/7 out in the lives that we’re living.” As you incorporate that 24/7 learning into everyday moments in your family’s life, you can establish a strong foundation for a “house of learning” (D&C 88:119) that will provide you and your family with spiritual shelter and protection.
a mother and daugher sitting on a sofa
D&C 88:119 - Organize yourselves; prepare every needful thing; and establish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting, a house of faith, a house of learning, a house of glory, a house of order, a house of God.

See entire article HERE

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Sunday Lesson, Nov 2nd

During our RS lesson today, taught by Sister Welling, we discussed how we keep our testimonies alive when there are so many distractions around us.

President Joseph Fielding Smith taught that a testimony “is a convincing knowledge given by revelation to [a person] who humbly seeks the truth.” He said of testimony and the Holy Ghost, who brings that revelation, “Its convincing power is so great that there can be no doubt left in the mind when the Spirit has spoken. It is the only way that a person can truly know that Jesus is the Christ and that his gospel is true.”

Think of the moment when you first FELT and KNEW that the Gospel of Jesus Christ was true. When did it happen? Where were you? What were you doing? Who were you with? How old were you?

Many sisters shared their experience of when the FELT and KNEW that the Gospel of Jesus Christ was true. In every case it was when they were acting, searching, and doing something that was good. It was when they were ready to listen to the promptings from the Holy Ghost. It is important for each of us to have our own personal conversion to this gospel and to work to keep it alive.

We discussed Lehi's Dream - His vision of the tree of life in 1 NE chapter 8. Subheading ~ Lehi sees a vision of the tree of life—He partakes of its fruit and desires his family to do likewise—He sees a rod of iron, a strait and narrow path, and the mists of darkness that enshroud men—Sariah, Nephi, and Sam partake of the fruit, but Laman and Lemuel refuse.

Lehi’s inspired dream symbolically represents our life in mortality. We can find ourselves represented in it and can see where our lives are headed if we remain on our present path. I love this account and the symbolism in these scriptures.

Since this represents our life here on earth we need to understand and break this down to understand it.
SYMBOL (what Lehi saw)
MEANING
Large and spacious field (v.9)
the world (v. 20)
Tree            (v.10)
the love of God (1 Ne 11:22)
Fruit            (v.10)
the love of God or eternal life (1 Ne 15:36)
River of water (v.13)
depths of the river=depths of hell (1 Ne 12:16)
Rod of iron (v.19) 
the word of God (1 Ne 11:25)
Strait and narrow path (v.20)
the way to eternal life (2 Ne 31:18)
Mist of Darkness (v.23)
the temptations of the devil (1 Ne 12:17)
Great and spacious building
the vain imaginations and pride of the world (1 Ne 11:36, 12:18)

   FRUIT - The blessings of the Lord surpass all human understanding. So it is when one fully comprehends the love of God. That love can be felt in the loneliest deserts or in his blessed presence. The blessings of God’s love and eternal life are available only through the atonement.

ROD OF IRON - serves as a protection to keep us out of the filthy water.
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Elder Bednar gives a talk about the difference between the groups of people in this dream called, Lehi's Dream: Holding Fast to the Rod.
There are 4 groups of people. Everyone on earth can be placed in one of these groups, ask yourself which group you are in. Three of the groups were pressing forward along the strait and narrow path seeking to get to the tree and its fruit. A fourth group did not seek after the tree, desiring instead the great and spacious building as their ultimate destination (see1 Nephi 8:31–33).

In 1 Nephi 8:21–23 we learn about the first group of people who pressed forward and commenced in the path that led to the tree of life. However, as the people encountered the mist of darkness, which represents “the temptations of the devil” (1 Nephi 12:17), they lost their way, wandered off, and were lost. Notice that no mention is made in these verses of the rod of iron. Those who ignore or treat lightly the word of God do not have access to that divine compass which points the way to the Savior. Consider that this group obtained the path and pressed forward, exhibiting a measure of faith in Christ and spiritual conviction, but they were diverted by the temptations of the devil and were lost.

What are some distractions we have? How does the devil temp us so that we might lose our way & wander off? Why would Satan not want us to see the tree and the fruit?  What experiences in peoples lives may cause them to be blinded to the love of God?  Why would failure to perceive the love of God cause us to harden our hearts?

In 1 Nephi 8:24–28 we read about a second group of people who obtained the strait and narrow path that led to the tree of life. This group “did press forward through the mist of darkness, clinging to the rod of iron, even until they did come forth and partake of the fruit of the tree” (verse 24). However, as the finely dressed occupants of the great and spacious building mocked this second group of people, “they were ashamed” and “fell away into forbidden paths and were lost” (verse 28). Please notice that this group is described as “clinging to the rod of iron” (1 Nephi 8:24; emphasis added).

It is significant that the second group pressed forward with faith and commitment. They also had the added blessing of the rod of iron, and they were clinging to it! However, as they were confronted with persecution and adversity, they fell away into forbidden paths and were lost. Even with faith, commitment, and the word of God, this group eventually was lost—perhaps because they only periodically read or studied or searched the scriptures. Clinging to the rod of iron suggests to me only occasional “bursts” of study or irregular dipping rather than consistent, ongoing immersion in the word of God.

Do you live the gospel in bursts, when it is convenient to you? When you are around others that might believe differently do you stay true to the principles of the gospel? Do you ever feel ashamed of your beliefs? If we are in this group we will eventually fall away and be lost. Clinging or irregularly living the gospel is not enough. 
  
In verse 30 we read about a third group of people who pressed forward “continually holding fast to the rod of iron, until they came forth and fell down and partook of the fruit of the tree.” The key phrase in this verse is continually holding fast to the rod of iron.

The third group also pressed forward with faith and conviction; however, there is no indication that they wandered off, fell into forbidden paths, or were lost. Perhaps this third group of people Consistently read and studied and searched the scriptures. Perhaps it was diligence and devotion to a seemingly “small and simple [thing]” (Alma 37:6) that saved the third group from perishing. Perhaps it was “the knowledge of the Lord” and “the knowledge of the truth” (Alma 23:5, 6) obtained through faithful study of the scriptures that yielded the spiritual gift of humility—such that this group of people “fell down and partook of the fruit of the tree” (1 Nephi 8:30; emphasis added). Perhaps it was the spiritual nourishment and strength provided by continually “feasting upon the word of Christ” (2 Nephi 31:20) that enabled this group to heed not the scorning and mocking of the people in the great and spacious building (see 1 Nephi 8:33). This is the group you and I should strive to join.

What is the difference between clinging and holding fast to the rod of iron? 
We discussed how close the filthy water (hell) is to the iron rod. By clinging and only occasionally holding on we are in danger of falling. We must be consistent in our efforts to hold fast to the iron rod (word of God) continually, and earnestly using the holy scriptures as our guide. It is the seemingly easy things, the small and simple things that we need to doing. Consistently attending all of our church meetings, praying, scripture study, etc. will help us. By doing these things our testimonies will be strengthened and kept alive.

President Eyring teaches ~ Testimony will come to you in pieces as parts of the whole truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ are confirmed. For instance, as you read and ponder the Book of Mormon, verses you have read before will appear new to you and bring new ideas. Your testimony will grow in depth as the Holy Ghost confirms that they are true. Your living testimony will expand as you study, pray, and ponder in the scriptures.

We can have a testimony of so many things; Visiting Teaching, Temple Work, Scriptures, Prayer, Tithing, Living Prophet. If your testimony isn’t where you want it to be then do these things. If we are not living a principle we will not gain a testimony of that. We have to act and do! Without the doing, we will never gain a testimony of that thing we hope to understand better.

Elder Packer gives us this promise: An unseen power will hold your hand as you hold to the iron rod.  Will this solve all your problems? Of course not! That would be contrary to the purpose of your coming into mortality. It will, however, give you a solid foundation on which to build your life (see Helaman 5:12).

The mist of darkness will cover you at times so much that you will not be able to see your way even a short distance ahead. You will not be able to see clearly. But with the gift of the Holy Ghost, you can feel your way ahead through life. Grasp the iron rod, and do not let go. (See 3 Nephi 18:25D&C 9:8.)

You may think that Lehi’s dream or vision has no special meaning for you, but it does. You are in it; all of us are in it.

For our testimonies to grow we have to stay on course. We have to continue to do and live the gospel. We must attend our meetings and attend to our duties, pay tithes, take the sacrament, honor the priesthood, follow our leaders, read the scriptures, study the Book of Mormon, and pray. We have to press forward. We cannot heed or listen to outside or inner voices that would discourage us or tell us to do otherwise. We have to change our course if we are not numbered with the 3rd group who are continually holding fast to the word of God.  
   
Elder Eyring
I do not depend on what has happened in the past. To keep my living testimony of the Book of Mormon secure. I don’t take that blessing of a testimony for granted as a perpetual entitlement.
Testimony requires the nurturing by the prayer of faith, the hungering for the word of God in the scriptures, and the obedience to the truth we have received. There is danger in neglecting prayer. There is danger to our testimony in only casual study and reading of the scriptures. They are necessary nutrients for our testimony.

Saturday, November 1, 2014

November Newsletter

Presidency Message by Lisa Lara
How do we develop an attitude of gratitude? President Joseph F. Smith said, "The grateful man sees so much in the world to be thankful for, and with him the good outweighs the evil. Love overpowers jealousy, and light drives darkness out of his life." With Thanksgiving just around the corner, it is hard not to think about the countless blessing that God has given us. He has given us so much in our lives, and the most important gift He has given is our Savior, Jesus Christ.

Just the other night, after a few rough and long days behind me, my daughter was finishing her piano practicing before going to bed. She is learning a primary song, 'My Heavenly Father Loves Me'. As she played so carefully, my heart became full as the words went through my mind:
Whenever I hear the song of a bird Or look at the blue, blue sky,Whenever I feel the rain on my face Or the wind as it rushes by, Whenever I touch a velvet rose Or walk by our lilac tree, I'm glad that I live in this beautiful world Heavenly Father created for me.  
He gave me my eyes that I might see The color of butterfly wings.He gave me my ears that I might hear The magical sound of things. He gave me my life, my mind, my heart; I thank him reverently For all his creations, of which I'm a part. Yes, I know Heavenly Father loves me.
As I listened I realized once again how blessed I am for all the things Heavenly Father has given me. What a change that can take place if we take a moment and let ourselves be grateful for all that we have, even for those rough and hard days. I pray that we can learn to be positive and optimistic in our lives, and that we let gratitude fill our hearts so we can become more like our Savior and be ever thankful for all that we have been given.

Love, Marty, Lisa, Jan, Debbie, & Jenny

Birthdays
1 Kendra Mauger
11 Contessa Hardman
12 Marianne Nance
16 Amber Graves
28 Karen Hamblin
29 Deanna Allred
29 Ariadne Sorensen
29 Amy Wagner

Lesson Schedule
Nov 2 Lesson by Jan Welling
Nov 9 #20 “Love & concern for all our Father’s children” taught by Kristen Tanner
Nov 16 #21 “Proclaiming the Gospel to the World” taught by Kay Bashford
Nov 23 “Stay in the Boat” by Elder Ballard taught by Jacquelyn Brady
Nov 30 Bishop’s Instruction

Upcoming Events
Nov 6 Project Night 7pm at Jan Welling’s
Nov 19 Temple Day
Dec 11 RS Meeting Christmas Party 6:30 pm “We are Not Homeless”

Other Opportunities
Nov 4 Election Day
Nov 11 Lunch Bunch at 11 am Panda Express (Kipling & 50th)
Dec 4 Book Club at 7pm at Kyle Koyle's "I am Malala: The girl who stood up for education…"
Dec 9 Lunch Bunch at 11 am at Jackie Milonas’ home (5665 Dudley St)
Dec 13 Ward Christmas Party
Thursdays 9:30 am playgroup
Saturdays 8 am pickup basketball
Mon & Wed 9 am Aerobics
The visiting teaching message for this month should be taken from the October 2014 Conference addresses. Please think of each sister you visit, and pray to know the message that would help her in some way. God bless your faithfulness.
Your Relief Society Presidency

THE PARABLE OF THE KEYS
by S. Michael Wilcox
Once there was a little boy and a little girl who loved Jesus very much, and he loved them. They were kind and always told the truth, and whatever Jesus wanted them to do they tried their best to do. "You may come to my house," Jesus told them one day, "and there I will give you a gift." They put on their best clothes, made sure they were clean, and went to Jesus' house. It was a beautiful house, and it made them feel beautiful too, just to be inside it. They met Jesus, and he gave them his gift. It was a key -- a wonderful key. "Take care of this key," he said. "Put it next to your heart. Don't let it tarnish or get rusty. Always keep it with you. One day it will open a wonderful door. Whenever you wish, you may return to my house, but each time I will ask to see the key." They promised him they would, and they went home.

They returned often to Jesus' house, and each time he asked if they still had the key. And they always did. One day he asked if they would follow him. He led them to a hill covered with green grass and trees. On top of the hill was a mansion in the middle of a beautiful garden. Even in their dreams they had never imagined anything so magnificent. "Who lives here?" they asked him. "You may," he answered. "This is your eternal home. I've been building it for you. The key I gave you fits a lock in the front door. Now run up the path and put your key into the lock." They ran up the hill and through the garden to the front door. "If it's this beautiful on the outside," they said, "it must be even more wonderful inside!" But when they reached the front door, they stopped. It was the strangest door they had ever seen. Instead of one lock, the door was covered with locks, hundreds of locks, thousands of locks. And they had only one key. They put their key into one of the locks. It wouldn't fit. They put it into another. It didn't fit that one either. They tried many different locks. Finally they found the one that fit. They turned the key and the lock clicked. But the door wouldn't open. They ran back to Jesus. "We cannot open the door," they said. "It is covered with locks, and we have only one key."

He smiled at them and said: "Do you think you will be happy living in your mansion all alone? Is there anyone you would like to live with you there?" They thought for a while and then answered, "We would like our families to live with us." "Go and find them," he said. "Invite them to my house, and I will give each one their very own key. Soon you will have many keys." They rushed out eagerly to find their families. They found their fathers and mothers, their brothers and sisters, and all their cousins and brought them to Jesus' house. Just as he had promised, he gave each one a key. When all had been given a key, together they returned to the great door of the mansion. Now they had dozens of keys, but there were thousands of locks, and the door still wouldn't open. They needed more keys. Once again they returned to Jesus. "We have brought our families," they said. "But the door still won't open."

"Do your parents have a mother and father and brothers and sisters?" He asked them. "Do you think they will be happy living in the beautiful mansion without them? If you look hard enough, you will find many, many people. Bring them all to my house, and I will give each one a key." They looked very hard, just as Jesus had told them. They found mothers and fathers. They found brothers and sisters. They found grandmas and grandpas and great-great-grandmothers and great-great-great grandfathers. They found aunts and uncles and nieces and nephews and cousins. They found them in big cities. They found them in tiny villages. Some lived by the seashore. Some lived on the open prairie. Some lived near the mountains. Some lived far across the ocean. And some lived close, just over the next hill. Some were blacksmiths and some were farmers. There were cobblers and tailors and fishermen. There were teachers and mechanics and shopkeepers. Some were tall with strange-looking hats. Others were short and wore wooden shoes. They spoke different languages and came from many different countries. They found some with long blond hair that hung far down their backs in braids. They found some with short red hair that stuck straight up and had to be hidden under a hat. The boy and girl searched until they had found everybody and all their families.

They brought all the fathers and mothers, the brothers and sisters, the aunts and uncles, the nieces and nephews, the grandmothers and grandfathers to Jesus' house. Inside he gave each one his or her own key. Soon all the families were gathered before the great door. There was a lock for every key. They turned the keys, but the door remained closed. There was one final lock, a great big one right in the middle of the door, and no one had its key. The boy and girl returned to Jesus. "We have found all our families," they said. "But the door still won't open. We're missing a key and don't know where to find it."

Jesus smiled, put his arms around them, and gave each one a kiss. "I have the last key," he said, and he held it up. It was bright and shining and beautiful. "This is the key of my atonement," he said. "Am I not a member of the family? Do you think you will be happy living in your mansion without me? Do you think I would be happy living without you? Now that you have found the whole family, all my brothers and sisters, all our Father's children, together we will enter our eternal home, for home will always be where families live and love together." He took their hands, and the whole family opened the door, entered the mansion, and spent an eternity of happiness together. "In my Father's house are many mansions," Jesus said. "I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. And whither I go ye know, and the way ye know." (John 14:2-4; emphasis added.)

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Preparing for Fast Sunday

We are just a few short days away from Fast Sunday. Here is a touching video to watch as you prepare yourself to fast in prayer to your Father in Heaven, who knows and loves you! Ponder about what you will be fasting for. Pray with faith knowing that your prayer will be heard and answered no matter how big or small it may seem to you.


Sunday, October 26, 2014

Sunday Lesson: Oct 26th

Our Teaching For Our Times lesson was taught by Larkin Harman. The lesson came from a general conference talk by Elder Lynn G. Robbins, Which Way Do You Face? 

Elder Robbins teaches, "Trying to please others before pleasing God is inverting the first and second great commandments (Matthew 22:37-39). It is forgetting which way we face. And yet, we have all made that mistake because of the fear of men."

Sis. Harman asked two questions throughout her lesson:
1) How easy is it for you to please God? and 
2) What are the ways that I try to please others?

Sis. Harman points out that pleasing God doesn't have to be hard, in fact, most times it is easy. Reading our scriptures, communicating with God in prayer, attending the temple regularly, holding Family Home Evening; these are things that we do to please God, but we oftentimes put them on the back-burner because we are focusing too much attention on pleasing those around us. Elder Robbins says, "While it certainly takes courage to face perils, the true badge of courage is overcoming the fear of men." He continues in his talk showing example after example of courageous men and women from the scriptures that were courageous and overcame the fear of men by putting God first in their lives.

Pres. Uchtdorf talked about the way we can overcome the fear of men in his message at the last General Women's Session. He reminds us that we are each a daughter of God. "My dear sisters in the gospel, whether you are 8 or 108, there is one thing that I hope you truly understand and know. You are loved. You are dear loved. You are dear to your heavenly parents. The infinite and eternal Creator of light and life knows you! He is mindful of you. Yes, God loves you this very day and always....He is not waiting to love you until you have overcome your weaknesses and bad habits. He loves you today with a full understanding of your struggles. He is aware that you reach up to Him in heartfelt and hopeful prayer....More than you could ever imagine, He wants you to achieve your destiny - to return to your heavenly home in honor. I testify that the way to accomplish this is to place selfish desires and unworthy ambitions on the altar of sacrifice and service. I promise that as you do so, you will discover your best self - your real self. You will discover what it truly means to be a daughter of the everlasting God."

As you ponder Elder Robbin's talk, Which Way Do You Face, remember that your Savior is the perfect example of how to put God first in our lives. He was the only perfect one who did so, and if we follow His example, we will be able to follow the first great commandment of loving the Lord with all our heart, soul and mind. "He is the only person who never once forgot which way He faced."

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Updates!

Just a little note to remind you to check the tabs above for updates! We do our best to keep things as current as possible. Things are constantly changing and new calendar items are one of them. Click on the following recently updated tabs...

Relief Society & Ward Activities for activities that you won't want to miss.
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Recycle & Reuse to find something you may need. If you have something to list here please let us know.

This Sunday and next look for the Project Night table that will be outside the primary room and relief society room. Sign up for a craft or bring your own to project night. We will also be have having a holiday recipe exchange. Bring a sample of your favorite holiday dish or dessert along with the recipe to share. This is a really fun evening to socialize in a very casual setting.

Lastly, check out the A2 Ward Relief Society Bulletin board's new look. It is located right outside the RS room. It has the newsletter, upcoming activities, lesson schedule and more posted on it.

We hope that you will use these resources and remind your sisters to use them to help us all stay connected. Between all these we are able to keep closer to each other and our amazing sisters that teach our primary and young women age kids, as well as those that aren't able to make it each week.

We love you and hope to see you at the Ward Halloween Party tonight at 6:00 pm!

Sunday, October 19, 2014

Visiting Teaching Thought

"Visiting teachers sincerely come to know and love each sister, help her strengthen her faith, and give service. They seek personal inspiration to know how to respond to the spiritual and temporal needs of each sister they are assigned to visit." 
(Church Handbook 2)

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Sunday Lesson: Oct 12th

Sis. Kristen Tanner did a wonderful job on the lesson she presented, In the World but Not of the World, Chapter 19 from our manual. She started the lesson by having a story shared when Pres. Monson was in basic training in the Navy. The full story can be read here:  

Like Pres. Monson, we may find ourselves in a situation where we will need to 'Stand Alone'.  President Joseph Fielding Smith taught, "While we are in the world, we are not of the world. We are expected to overcome the world and to live as becometh saints." Pres. Smith also reminds us of the scripture in John 17:15-17 when Christ was in the Garden of Getsemene and was praying to His Father. He said, "I pray not that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from evil. They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. Santicfy them through thy truth; thy word is truth."

There are many ways we can live our lives more like the Savior. Some of those ways include keeping the Sabbath Day Holy, Obeying the Word of Wisdom, Respecting the Name of Deity, and Dressing Modestly and keeping the Law of Chastity. As we discussed in class, as we try our best to keep these commandments, we will be blessed and continue to be an example to those around us. Pres. Smith says, "Above all other peoples on the earth, the Latter-day Saints should hold in the utmost sacredness and reverence all things that are holy. The people of the world have not been trained as we have been in such matters, notwithstanding there are many honest, devout, and refined people in the world. But we have the guidance of the Holy Spirit and the revelations of the Lord, and He has solemnly taught us in our own day our duty in relation to all such things."

Because we are disciples of Christ we have promised to keep the commandments and pattern our life after our Saviors. President Smith said, "As servants of the Lord, our purpose is to walk in the path he has charted for us. We not only desire to do and say what will please him, but we seek so to live that our lives will be like his." Our own President Monson in the recent general conference pleaded, "May we be faithful followers of Christ, examples of righteousness, thus becoming lights in the world." President Smith also stated, "Brethren and sisters, let us keep the commandments of God as they have been revealed. Let us set the example before the people of the earth, that they, seeing our good works, may feel to repent and receive the truth and accept the plan of salvation, that they may receive the truth and accept the plan of salvation, that they may receive salvation in the celestial kingdom of God."

The following are quotes that Sis. Tanner used in her lesson, including the song that was shared, Come Unto Christ by Jamie Call Schipaanboord.
Sisters, strengthen yourselves by seeking the source of true strength — the Savior. Come unto him.  He loves you. He desires your happiness and exults in your desires for righteousness. Make him your strength, your daily companion, your rod and your staff.  Let him comfort you.  There is no burden we need bear alone.  His grace compensates for our deficiencies.  Your strength will strengthen others — your children, your husband, your friends, and your sisters in the gospel.  That strength will flow back from them to you when you need it.  — (Chieko N. Okazaki, “Strength in the Savior,” Ensign Nov. 1993)

“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together... there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart... I'll always be with you.”

-Winnie the Pooh
Let us glorify God’s name by standing strong with our Savior, Jesus Christ. I bear my special witness that He lives and that we “are called with a holy calling” to participate in His work (Alma 13:3; see also 2 Timothy 1:9). “Wherefore, stand ye in holy places, and be not moved” (Doctrine and Covenants 87:8). Standing obedient and strong on the doctrine of our God, we stand in holy places, for His doctrine is sacred and will not change in the social and political winds of our day. I declare, as did the Apostle Paul, “Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, [behave] like men, [and] be strong” -Elder Robert D Hales